Monday, January 12, 2015
Lymphangioleiomyomatosis - A new lease on life maybe?
As you know I am now on oxygen at night and when I lay down. I felt better the first few days on it, but then the lovely monthly cycle hit and I have been of course short of breath, extremely fatigued and just in general do not feel well. My daughter noticed how short of breath I was. Hoping for a better week. I do feel I wake up better since the onset of oxygen. I only am groggy for a little bit and then I seem to perk up better. Not sure it lasts as long as I'd like but it's a start. I also feel I have more brain power, if that makes sense. I think I am beginning to think a tad bit more clearly. Told the kids don't think I can get any of the lost brain cells back from being so short of oxygen for who knows how many years but as I said before- it's a start. I am hoping I will get more focused. I did notice that I had been stepping out of living life the last couple/few years and couldn't explain it. I just felt it was because of all the stress with the child molester issue and adoption and change of location and diagnosis etc. but looking back I think it started before then. I just felt less and less involved in life, in daily activities and everything basically. I was checking out of life, or something was checking me out of it. Hard to explain. I wonder if it was just the lack of oxygen. Boy, soooooo many times I remember telling my husband, "I just feel like my brain is not getting enough oxygen." And wow- I was right. I know my body best. Scary :) Hoping to check back into life. To start caring again, or better yet to have the energy to start caring again. To be motivated in everything I do. So again bittersweet emotions here, grieving my old life of being able to fall on the couch and take a nap with out being hooked to an oxygen concentrator-- I did that today and paid the price with horrendous headache and no energy, but being excited about a new start and a new energy for life.
Thank you Lord for knowing what I need when I need it.
Hope you have a blessed week and the energy to go out and make a difference in someone's life. I saw something on TV I think it was tonight or fb not sure, but I can not give credit to the person who said it because it blinked off before I had time to read the name fully-- but it said basically -- Do not mistake my kindness for weakness. I really like that.. I think a lot of people do not realize that about me.
Saturday, January 3, 2015
In chains -
Have you ever been in the middle of something and can't seem to see to the outside of it what is really going on? I think that is where I am at. Sometimes I wish I could see, I don't know I guess the big picture of my life. I think I am losing/lost that in the middle of living? Does that make sense? I might have brushed on this topic before, maybe I am back here again then, because this is where I am at. And not even an, "It's a wonderful life thing."- just how everything fits together. Maybe I am getting antsy and just want to see how the Lord has moved and how our lives our so intertwined together. I was thinking the other day I wondered who prayed for me when I was younger, in my 20's and early 30's before I got saved. Someone's prayers had kept me safe, delivered me from evil mainly times. I'd like to thank them. Meet them if I don't/didn't already know them. And then deeper thoughts like what if no one prays for a certain someone. Has every person had at least one person pray for them in their lifetime? (this is how my brain works) Some of those questions are answered in the bible- which is why we must go out and spread the gospel, but I think these questions just the same.
On another note=
I was working the other day and someone said "Home health care." Those words, those simple words really took me back. Strange how something so easy and simple and helpful to people could make me cringe- indeed if any of you knew it- I was fighting back a couple tears. It just caught me by surprise and truth be known I think I suddenly resented being where I am at. Which usually I am not- but I did dip down into pity party for a minute- I guess that's what it was. Just a realization that things aren't going to be where they were before. That now I am hooked to something, chained in a way to oxygen, although being chained to it is actually helping me. Kind of like Jesus- the parallel- always the parallel.. Teach your kids when they are young to learn parallels and patterns because they will need that learning to see the parallels and patterns that the Lord has graciously shown us in this life. Getting back to the parallel. Being chained-- to Jesus as if that may feel some days like a bad, or hard thing or too much of a burden to bear- too much of a sacrifice. And yet- you/me/we need him, need to be chained to him to even exist-- to breathe. I should write a book on parallels and patterns. I kid you not, I see them all the time, I am sure you do too. If you are looking and thinking of him and his ways and the blessings and messages he sends. It's quite fun actually, like putting together a puzzle. Love it! Hope this small note encouraged you- I know I got encouraged myself just talking about Jesus and his patterns he sends to us! Have a blessed day.
Isaiah 40:31 ...but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.
Wednesday, December 31, 2014
Quiet reflections
As the end of the year arrives.. time to reflect back on changes in my life. Quite a few. Adoption is closer. Change of location. A different school setting for one. A new dog found us. Some ongoing family issues that need resolved in a Christ-like manner. Been an interesting year. I am blessed for sure. I hope you see that you are also.
*I got some news today that I didn't want, but really knew was coming. Apparently, when I sleep my oxygen sat's go down to 83%. That is not very good. Around 70%, you are basically circling the drain about to go down. For those who aren't medical 98-99% is ideal. 100% is the best you can get. That really explains A LOT! I really have felt over the last few years that I am having trouble with clear thinking, being able to process things like I used to. I would try to explain that to some, and I always felt like I wasn't really understood on that. I have felt like I have been very fatigued and just figured because I was overweight and hadn't been exercising much. Now, I have the reason to explain these things. The tissue in my body, brain included has not been getting enough oxygen when I lay down, which causes me to be tired and try to lay down more, which causes more hypoxia. Quite the cycle- one I do not want to be a part of. The Dr. office called today, and gave me the results and said I would have to wear oxygen now at night. They said if they don't call you in a week, meaning the home health care people), then call us back. Well, they called less than 1 hour later. They will be out here later today to do what they do and bring oxygen etc. Good thing in the last month the hubby has not smoked in the house once. Unique isn't he? God, how he plans/times things so well. How many years I have asked, pleaded, cajoled, yelled even to please smoke outside and he wouldn't. Well, in the last month he has by himself, smoked outside, the change of location helped for sure, but he did this himself. And then 1 month later, we find out I must have oxygen at night. You can not have open flame by oxygen, so it is imperative that he not smoke around the O2 tanks. And I have not had to say anything about it.
I have mixed emotions on this and at one point thought I was going to tear up /cry due to this finding. I mean, seriously, home health? ME??? Just doesn't make sense, doesn't fit. I am not to be on this road but I am. I felt a pity party sneaking up on me. But I can not live there long. True, it is another step in a direction I do not want to go, however, I do know how good I felt in the hospital being on oxygen and no one really seemed to appreciate that. At least in my mind, they didn't. So, I am looking forward to how good I may feel starting today. They also found I have excessive limb movement in arms and legs and said if I was symptomatic, as in waking up a lot due to leg/arm movement/pain etc that they would run some blood tests to see if I had restless leg syndrome. I said no, just wake up a lot due to flipping and tossing and turning trying to get the back to not hurt. I do have a family member who has restless leg syndrome and it doesn't sound fun.
Hope you all had a good 2014. Looking for a better 2015 for all of us. Remembering God is in control. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
Much love,
Saturday, December 20, 2014
Status quo-
Been a while since I have written. Been busy and I think somewhat depressed. Not even really know what over, as I have NO reason. A lot of changes lately, not so much with my health, but more with my life in general. Saw the Dr. in St. Louis. He said everything was status quo- meaning lung function still the same! Yay! I really had a feeling that was going to be the answer. I did have a cyst pop about a month before that and gave me a lot of bad chest pain/lung pain and shortness of breath. Missed a day of work. Don't think I have had one pop this week, but boy since Tuesday pretty decent lung pain and sporadic shortness of breath. Really frustrating. It coincides with the menstrual period again. Took pain pills for 3 days, one night couldn't sleep due to the hurting. Now it is there, but is intermittent. I can't work and take the pain pills so just have to suck it up the best I can. I met a wonderful LAM patient in St. Louis who I have been wanting to meet for a while! Such a lovely, caring, knowledgeable person! Didn't have much time but she was sweet to come to my appt. with me.
Still struggling to find forgiveness with a child molester who, well I can't go into details now, but just really need prayer for this. I know I am the one caught if I can't find forgiveness. Need wisdom and discernment how to raise this child too.
Life again seems too busy. I want a vacation- think I need one, and afraid I won't get one for quite sometime. The kids sooooooooo want to go to Florida.. I think I want to worse than they do.
Monday, September 22, 2014
No panic
Really rough week or so lately. About 10 days ago, felt a strange big pop in my left lower lung area. Somehow there is no other feeling like that, I knew as soon as it happened what it was. Second time I have felt that. I had a lot of chest pain after that and some shortness of breath. Worse over time. Had a friend listen to my lungs she said they were all clear. I didn't really think I had a pneumo, but wondered/wondering if I didn't have a PE (pulmonary embolism- blood clot in the lung). I did run out of my Xarelto for almost a week, kind of let it go on purpose, my back had been hurting so terribly bad and really wanted to take some Ibuprofen, so just never really filled it and let it go a bit. So I began to psyche myself out that I might have a PE. I suppose I should go get an xray at a minimum, but I am a little afraid 1. what they will find and what that will mean for me, and 2. that an xray won't show diddly and they will want to do another CT, that would be 3 I think in one year's time- (this weekend is the year's anniversary since starting to be diagnosed with all this junk}. Well, then to add fuel to the fire- (warning- any men reading this might want to stop here)- I started this weekend, I hadn't done that in a few months, and it is bad- it always makes it harder to breathe along that time of month, but wow- feels like the "double whammy."
** On another note- I am trying to figure out how, in what way, in whose strength- ( I already know who will give me the strength) I am going to forgive the jerk who molested someone I love. I do not know which is worse- that I see no remorse or that he lives so very close and we have to see him a lot right now. I guess it does not matter. I am not called to worry about those things- but to set them aside and forgive. Just pray for me please- trying to process it. Pray for my kids-- I apparently am more crabby that I realize this week :(
***Fall is in the air.. it is already too cool for me- the blood thinners do not help- I am just a summer girl and really want to move to Florida- but they say never to move to where you like to vacation- because then that glorious place loses its sparkle- and so it is with human nature.
**The hormones must really be playing with me-- Do you ever feel like you are losing your effectiveness as a Christian? I think I am there. I do not usually feel this- it is a rather uncomfortable feeling. I do know people are watching- I just think what they are seeing in me is not what I want them to see. Think it is overdue I ask the Lord to take the yuck out of me again. Make me more like him, everyday in everyway.
Blessings to you all- As Pastor said- "The best is yet to come." I do believe that. I also heard another one say-- "In God, there is no panic." That is true---- Selah-- means think about that really hard.
Blessings-
Sunday, August 31, 2014
Three would be neat!
Didn't realize it had been a while since I had written. Life has been crazy and way too busy. School started a couple weeks ago and with the amount of activity required to get ready for that and some reoccurring back issues- I hadn't thought much about my writing. We still homeschool 3 of the kids, one wanted to branch out and try something different and is going to a private school. Can you say second job? So between carpooling now and many miles put on the vehicles, just feel like things are standing still on the health front, but honestly I think that is a good thing. I haven't thought about me much and I like that. I really do not even think about it until someone asks me about it. Must mean I am having some good weeks- it's all relative. I consider myself very healthy so that is that-I guess for now. Still disappointed I am not getting up and exercising- had such high hopes- but maybe tomorrow :). I haven't emailed the Dr about the sleep test, but it is required that I go see her to set one up- as I haven't been there in a while. I just haven't had the time or desire to go do that yet. I haven't even made a move to get more blood tests done as the good Dr. in Cinc. wanted. I came home from Ohio, put the binder in it's place and just got busy living and haven't looked back. I still get short of breath, dry cough, fatigue, and chest pain that comes and goes. Overall, doing well and glad of it. Not even sure I can relate to a lot of the LAM patients I hear about just because I feel I am doing so very well. I think I am becoming rebellious in the fact I do not want to take the Xarelto anymore because I have heard such bad things about it. I can not wait to get off of it and have missed a few doses and taken instead Ibuprofen (how I miss it!) for my back instead. Makes work go soooooo much better, not being in pain all the time from helping to move/lift 400+ pound patients! Yes, I know- stupid, but sometimes you have to help. I probably do need to get back on it- so will get it refilled and start today. I do have an appt coming up next month at Barnes with a rheumatologist the others wanted me to see. So off I go again. I think I am beginning to feel like going to these appts is a waste of time. I know the Lord gave me peace about it- so I guess I am wondering why I am still going through the motions of going to see them? Can anyone answer that??
** Random topic- I saw the most beautiful vibrant double rainbow that I have truly ever seen. It appeared to be so close to me. I have just never seen one that close up. Hard to describe. The colors were almost milky and yet clear and transparent at the same time. So bright and yet soft. Just amazing. Frustrated that I was driving and had to try to keep my eyes on the road and not on the rainbow - the main one, that was the brightest. Then the thought came to me- I think I will add to my bucket list- to see a triple rainbow! Wouldn't that be neat? Wondering if anyone else thinks such random thoughts as I do?
*** Enjoy your week, hope you have just enough rain and just enough sunshine to appreciate them both.
Saturday, July 19, 2014
Trapped
Well, I went to Cincinnati. It was good to get away, although it wasn't long enough. It was just good to get away, change of scenery. I probably don't need to be writing tonight because I am in a foul mood. My back has been out for a week, and not getting any better. The medicine I have to take for it makes me irritable and hurting makes me irritable- so between the 2 I am not in a nice frame of mind.
So the trip to Ohio- I finally got to meet the good Dr. from Cinc. He is a good guy, I like him. Very thorough. Where to start? Not even sure anymore. He did say he thinks I should get sleep test to see if my sats (oxygen saturations) drop at night as I have been having clouded thinking for some time now and I think it is getting worse and get very fatigued at times. He wants me to continue to see the Dr in St. Louis and see him in Ohio as needed. He says he believes I have LAM, although that is not the main issue. He said the Dr. in Ny and Mayo did not agree in their reports with what I have. He said he has not seen this before, so he was going to get with them both again and see if they can't all figure out what is going on here. Said again we will probably never know what is really going on/causing my issues. He did tell me I needed to move out of my house. It has flooded 3 times, each time a cleaning/restoration company came and lifted up the carpet dried it out and then re-laid the carpet down. I had seen mold down there, sprayed it with a bleach mixture. It went away so I didn't think much of it- but I do sneeze almost every time I go down there.. hmmmm... He said he's only had 3 patients in his career that he has told to move and I guess I am one of them. Easier said than done. This is the 2nd reason to move. The first lives across the street. I can not go into details yet, but need prayer there too. He wants me to not eat after 7 pm as sometimes when you sleep if you aspirate any acid that comes up it can cause some of the issues I have. I do not normally have heartburn so who knows. I'm trying to think of some of the other things he said. I have slept since then. He did think I could get off the Xarelto after a while and not be on it forever (as the Dr in St. Louis said). Seems a lot of things they will prescribe/do for me will be based on best judgment and not any tested path since we still do not really know what is causing my lung issues. He did say the clots are being created in the lungs, not transferring in from somewhere else. With the Xarelto being so new, there is so much they do not even know about that. So basically I feel trapped in this body with funky lung stuff. I want it out of there. And nothing I can do about it. I could go on and vent about other things, but think I will spare you all and just take it to the Lord. I am feeling trapped in many, many ways and not sure what to do about it. Usually I can figure out what to do or at least deal with it well. Now I haven't a clue and I am not dealing with it well. Even that makes me irritated. I think I need a vacation.
Another night of writing- I forgot to mention he still thinks I have Sjogren's also. So both LAM and Sjogren's. He thinks some of the cysts in my lungs are actually Sjogren's cysts. Even though all of the results have come back negative/inconclusive- he said it is a sneaky disease and if I remember correctly he said can manifest in different ways. Told me again we probably will never really know what I have/what is causing it. I did see on a commercial yesterday that Xarelto has been causing some serious consequences including irreversible abdominal bleeding/death and stroke. Seriously?? I think I'd rather get off it. Thankful I do not have to take it for very long.
So I feel trapped on all sides. Literally, trapped with the situation across the street, trapped with a family situation, trapped with a lung situation, trapped with a financial situation now, trapped in a job due to my own doing. The Dr thinks I need to examine myself for depression. He asked me if I was under a lot of stress :). Ya, I'd say I am. Regardless, I know where my strength comes from. I will count my blessings. They are many. God is good and doing so many amazing things around the world. Who am I to complain? He is so much bigger than my measly problems. I will take my petition before the Lord. He will answer, deliver and defend me. He is the righteous judge. Nothing escapes his eyes that roam to and fro all over the earth. Thanks for letting me vent. I feel better when I remember all He has done for me. Hope you are too.
Much love-
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